Im going thru a divorce & my soon 2 b ex has been accussing me of all kinds of crazy things from fraud, cybersex…etc. While at the same time my email inbox has been OVER RUN w/all kinds of garbage like lotteries, banking and really nasty porn, approx. 200-400 a day. N lately the computer started acting weird, slowin down, or just gets that lost n space-not going anywhere attitude…. I want to be able to prevent someone from a remote location from snooping around my hard disk files, cking out where I’ve gone online, keep my email msgs private. ????